Live Again Divorce Recovery: Frequently Asked Questions

Why do we need a “women only” divorce video for Christians?

When a tragic divorce destroys a family, many Christians find their hopes and dreams shattered. For them, this is the greatest loss they have ever faced. It devastates them, and they desperately need emotional and spiritual help. They struggle with loneliness and shame. They need to face the pain and begin to forgive themselves and others in order to move forward in life.

Women need time to heal and get back on their feet. Live Again gives women the opportunity to hear how other godly women have experienced victory in Jesus in their own struggles with divorce recovery. This naturally gives them hope for their own healing and wholeness in Jesus.

Are there really that many divorced Christian women?

Three out of every ten women who are attending churches today are divorced. That means that there are at least 7 million divorced or separated women in our churches. But there are an additional 8 million women who do not attend church who are also divorced or separated. That means there is a total of over 15 million women who have or are currently experiencing divorce.

We don’t have anyone qualified to lead a women’s divorce recovery group. What do we do?

With the Live Again series the expertise is already provided by the professionals on the DVD. Each of the eight sessions has a 15-minute segment where an expert provides biblical principles and insights to be applied. There is also an introductory 15-minute segment in which a woman who has moved into wholeness after divorce shares her story.

In addition, the Leader Guide provides clear and concise directions on how to lead each session in discussion. The discussion is always around the topic in the video session which helps to keep the group focused on the issue and solutions.

Any church of any size can effectively use Live Again to minister to the women in their church and community by providing a safe place to discover hope for healing.

Our church is not big enough to have a group, but we do need to help individuals in need. What can we do?

With the flexible kit options, Live Again is perfect for any situation. Often, churches will purchase the Home Kit (less than $40) to give or lend to women in the midst of divorce or who are still facing on-going challenges. Pastors and leaders discover that the material provided in this kit can better meet the spiritual and emotional needs of these women.

Many churches use Live Again as a way to reach the community. With a total of almost 17 million women currently divorced in the U.S. there is a great need for the church to reach out to these hurting women with the message of hope and healing.

What is included in each of the 8 topics?

Each topic has a 30-minute video session that has two 15-minute segments. The first segment offers the story of a woman who has experienced healing and moved to wholeness. The second segment features an expert who provides biblical principles and guidance.

For people who want to get the most out of the video: the optional Participant Guide provides key points and reflective questions, action steps, a prayer and Bible promises.

The optional Leader Guide is designed to make it easy for small group leaders to tackle the discussion and keep it on course. It is a step-by-step guide for preparing for a group and is accompanied by a Checklist of items needed for each session. The Leader Guide also includes clearly defined timelines, reflection questions, and suggested prayers for ending a session.

What are the topics?

Each 30-minute session features women's stories and a licensed counselor's practical advice to provide a roadmap to follow.

SESSION 1: Reality Check: Acceptance

There are few things in life more devastating and earth-shattering than going through a divorce. Some women knew it was coming, making it no less painful. Others felt like they were hit by an oncoming train that came out of nowhere. This session focuses on how to survive the shock and trauma of this painful experience. The reality of a divorce is both overwhelming and unimaginable. It's so hard to process the idea you are no longer married. This session will help women move beyond the unbelief and despair of what they are facing and find not only acceptance but also hope through Jesus.

SESSION 2: Forgiveness

It's been said that not forgiving another person is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies. Refusing to forgive is a never–ending battle that leads to bitterness and keeps divorced women in bondage to anger and resentment. When deep hurt happens, it takes significant energy, along with God's supernatural power and love, to choose forgiveness. This session focuses on one of the most difficult struggles for women of divorce; forgiveness - not only toward the other person, but also themselves.

SESSION 3: The Loneliness Giant

The agony of being alone and the accompanying feelings of loneliness haunt many women in the midst of divorce. Moments like these are almost unbearable: like sitting alone at church, sitting alone at dinner or sitting alone at home when everyone else is out enjoying themselves. This session helps women cope with the Giant of Loneliness and encourages them to trust Jesus to help them slay that giant.

SESSION 4: The Real Enemy: Lies Women Believe

Women struggle with destructive thoughts: “You’re not worthy.” “No one will ever want you.” “Look how low you’ve fallen.” “What reason do you have to live?” This session focuses on a woman’s vulnerability, how they can stand against the evil one’s plot and how they can learn confidence in the assurance they are precious and have value in the eyes of God.

SESSION 5: Respect Yourself

Divorce shatters a woman’s world and can distort how she sees herself. Her world has changed. Her role has changed. Her life has changed. This time of vulnerability, when she feels so low, can cause her to be swept off her feet by the first man who pays attention to her. This session helps each woman learn how to better care for herself and protect herself from predators. She will be given hope to recover her self-respect and find her identity in Christ.

SESSION 6: Sexless and Single: Sex and Dating

Our brains are hardwired from birth to need intimacy. Expert authors Dr. Catherine Hart Weber (Secrets of Eve: Understanding the Secrets of Female Sexuality) and Dr. Tim Alan Gardner (Sacred Sex) use biblical principles to provide counsel, insight and the parameters concerning God-given sexuality.

SESSION 7: Beyond Shame and Guilt

It is common for women of divorce to become enslaved to shame and guilt, which distances them from God and diverts them from following God’s purpose for them. Dale Dunnewold, counselor and president of Grace Ministries, has counseled hundreds of women and guides viewers on the path from shame and guilt to joy and confidence in the Lord through understanding His ever-available mercies, grace and forgiveness.

SESSION 8: Discovering a Whole New You

God is in the business of creating something wonderful out of the ashes of our lives. Four women tell their stories of moving from brokenness to wholeness. Each woman will discover that no matter how devastating her life story, when she will allow God to rebuild the pieces, He will tenderly show her who she is in Christ. She will live…She will love…She will laugh…again.

Who are the experts used on the videos?

Experts and licensed counselors include:

Dr. Tim Alan Gardner, Director of Life Skills Counseling Center, CEO & President of Marriage Ministries, Inc., Dallas, TX

Dr. Catherine Hart Weber, Director at Hart Institute, Pasadena, CA

Leslie Vernick, licensed counselor, author, speaker, Christ-Centered Counseling, Allentown, PA

Dale Dunnewold, president Grace Ministries, Nashville, TN

Paige Corley Henderson, co-founder, speaker, Fellowship of the Sword Ministries

Georgia Shaffer, licensed counselor, author, certified life coach, professional speaker

Sharon Kay Ball, licensed counselor in private practice

How would I lead this as a support group?

The sessions have been designed to last between 60 and 90 minutes.

  • 30 minute video session
  • 30-45 minutes of questions and sharing

The Live Again material is designed to be flexible to fit your own unique situation. All you need is the optional leader guide and participant guides.

Do I need to purchase anything?

The FREE eight 30-minute sessions provide the foundational content. However, the full impact of the resource will be experienced by also having the women engage with the Live Again Participant Guide and Live Again Personal Journal. The participant materials and the Leader Guide may all be purchased separately or as a part of one of the kits. Click here for more information on the kit selection to find what is best for your situation.

If I give the Live Again DVD series to a friend or offer it in my church, does it imply that I encourage divorce?

Definitely not. Providing help, support, counseling and encouragement designed to bring healing to broken people is one of the important responsibilities of the Church. Live Again is designed by women for women who are going through the hurt of a difficult divorce. Many of them experience depression, fear, anxiety, loneliness, and hopelessness all of which produce a deep need to be encouraged to reach out for help. This DVD series helps them walk through the pain and head toward healing through faith in Christ. Women need to hear positive stories of others who have gone through the pain of divorce and have come through to the other side able to wholly live again. Through the support of understanding friends and wise counsel, many women can work through anger, bitterness and despair and find wholeness and healing.

I want to use Live Again in my church. Can I lead group even if I'm not a professional counselor?

Definitely yes. Live Again is designed so that anyone can effectively lead it. While a leader’s personal experience of divorce may be helpful, anyone with a heart to lead women through the issues of divorce to healing in Christ can lead the group with the helps provided in this program. Encouraging stories along with biblical teaching and counsel is provided in each of the eight sessions on the DVD. There is also a Leader Guide filled with information, help and guidance every leader can apply to make their group successful. The thoughtful reflections, questions and Scriptural guidance in the Participant Guide allows the leader to help focus the group on the path to healing. Each DVD session includes inspirational stories by women who have found wholeness with God's help followed by biblical guidance and insight from seasoned Christian counselors working with women of divorce.

Is Live Again aligned with a particular denomination?

Live Again is a biblically-based Christian non-denominational series. It is designed to be used in churches to supplement not only counseling, but to provide immediate support and guidance to individuals in divorce recovery ministries or women’s ministry small groups.

How do you select the experts that appear on the Live Again video series?

We select seasoned Christian counseling experts who have successfully guided people through the divorce healing process. They adhere to a biblical, Christ-centered approach to hope for wholeness in healing from divorce. You can see a list of our experts here.

Can I see samples of the Live Again materials before I purchase it?

Yes, and we would encourage you to preview a sample from each of the following products: the Participant Guide, the Leader Guide and a sample from the Live Again video series.

The best way to preview the Live Again series to use in your church’s ministry is to purchase the Complete Kit with a 100% money-back guarantee. This kit consists of:

  • All eight Live Again DVD sessions,
  • One (1) Live Again Leader Guide,
  • One (1) Live Again Participant Guide,
  • PDF Live Again marketing materials,
  • One (1) Live Again Journal.

If you have a friend who is going through a difficult divorce, you can get the eight free DVD sessions only. The Participant guide and the Live Again Journal are beneficial additions which may be purchased separately. These two valuable additions help each women identify their feelings that are often difficult to sort out and offer biblical insights that can be frequent points of reference in moments of struggle and challenge.

How will people find out about our church's Live Again group?

Your Live Again Complete and Deluxe Kits include easy-to-use and easy-to-access PDFs of an email header, fliers, brochures, banners, posters, and a save-the-date PowerPoint background. You can fill in the information and print as many copies as you need.

We also include:

  • Two (2) short promotional videos to show at church (2-3 minute),
  • A promotional video just for pastors and church leaders,
  • A powerful Cheri Keaggy music/testimony video for women.

(You can also send out emails with links to these videos.)

Can we charge people to attend a Live Again group?

Yes, you can. The participant guide for the 8-session series is under $10. This allows most people to easily participate. Other ways the church can assist is through a benevolence fund or sponsorship for those who cannot afford the cost of the participant guide. This allows everyone to have the opportunity to be a part of this important ministry offered through your church.

Why is this focused on women? What about the men?

The Live Again series is for women only because it has been designed by women to focus on women’s needs, as they heal differently than men. It provides a safe environment allowing women to approach the healing process and share topics honestly and openly which can be uncomfortable in the presence of men: for example, sexuality, dating, loneliness, etc. This important distinction leads to a faster healing process. There are other divorce recovery programs that can address men’s needs.

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